5 Confidence Tips from My Lips 

 

Don?t we all love tips and hints? something to add to our day, something to make us smile or that extra something that we can add to our ?amazing women?s life kit?. Yes, you are already an amazing and multi-talented woman.

Often what we read is a reminder. seeing it again re-enforces reminds and re-programs us to move forward. It supports, grows and enhances our confidence. 

OK let?s go!

???????1. HAVING A BAD DAY?THIS TOO SHALL PASS

 It is a fact of life that when something goes wrong then several things go wrong ? next thing we find ourselves catapulting down the rabbit hole. Yes, we are likely drawing that very thing we say we don?t want by our thoughts, words and actions.

Taking a different perspective, the good news is this too shall pass. This also stands true for fabulous days?this too shall pass.

ACTION TIP ? Try aiming for a balance.

 

 2. IT'S OK IF YOUR DUCKS ARE NOT ALL IN A ROW 

Have you ever organised what you thought was everything to the ?nth degree? then found the ONE minuscule thing you didn?t consider happened?

The unexpected will pop up ? the ?thing? and the timing and the unforeseen. That is life, avoid slipping into the ?I can?t do anything right? mode.

 ACTION TIP. Stop, breathe, re-assess and move forward.

 

 3. SOMETIMES WE NEED TO SEE THINGS MORE THAN ONCE 

When we are learning new things, it is easy to say ?I am a slow learner? (I believe those words have escaped my lips once or twice).

Repeating what you have learned is an excellent way to re-enforce the lesson. Or for you, it may be taking notes to refer to if you don?t get to put what you learned into practice for a while.

It is OK to see, hear and do things more than once before they become a habit. Yes, doing the same thing over and over makes it a habit.

ACTION TIP ? Make it OK for you to see and hear things as many times as you need to.

 

 4. YOU CAN LAUGH EVEN AMONGST CHAOS 

One of the first things that disappear when life?s challenges overwhelm us is our ability to have fun and laugh. Then when we do find ourselves having a chuckle we go into the ?blame? and ?guilt?, ?how could I laugh when my life is falling apart.

Even in the worst of circumstances, there is always something that has the potential to make you smile, feel gratitude and enjoy a touch of nature.

ACTION TIP ? Create that smile for a friend going through a challenge?it is a great starting point in changing your perspective in life.

 5. BE AUTHENTICALLY YOU

The old saying goes ?Be you everyone else is taken?. So many try to be someone they are not, try to bluff it out by being someone different. Each of us is unique. No one does what you do in your way? don?t be afraid to stand out.

 ACTION TIP ? Ask yourself what makes you authentic.. embrace it, develop it and do more of it?

 

 

Now? just for you, give yourself a huge hug and ask yourself a wonderful supportive open question for example?

•  What else is possible?
• Who am I today and what grand and glorious adventures will I have?
• What is one small thing I can do today to enhance my life?

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