For those of us in maturity is was almost ‘expected’ that we would be well dressed, we would be ladies, we would wear proper underwear, stockings and HIGH HEELS!
It will make you look and feel confident they said!
I took to that like a duck to water was all of the above. After I married a man in the sugar industry, I found that conservative industry had the above unwritten rules.
Yes I said, they make my legs look good, yes they compliment my dress, yes it became part of my identity. I wore them in every colour, every style and every height. the higher the better.
Comfort? What a ridiculous notion if the dress demanded it I wore them… for as long as was required. Side effects- aching legs, calf cramps and squashed toes – that was inconsequential, I wore them anyway.
Moving right along several decades, when I had been speaking for many years, always well dressed, always in heels. Suddenly I developed a balance problem, vertigo serious enough to stop me in my tracks and just a few days before I was MC for a 3 day Convention.
The day came and I had to wear my flatties. I did a deal with myself I wore them while organising and stepped into heels when on show or on stage. Wearing heels was such an integral part of my persona and presentation I felt undressed in flatties.
Today I watched a video from an article in the Huffington Post – the link is:
A few points to think about:
- 72% of women have worn heels at some point in their lives
- The sole of the foot has 200,000 nerve endings that send messages to the brain about the ground we walk on. When we wear heels they mess with the messages.
- 49% of women ages 18-24 wear heels daily
- High heels push the hips and spine out of alignment
That has given me food for thought so I have decided my ‘expected’ will be – well dressed, still a lady, lingerie that suits my style, very occasional hose and flatties most of the time. My reward will be wearing heels for a treat!
It is time for me to transfer the confidence I felt in heels to a new found confidence in my flatties.
What are your thoughts on heels? Do you wear them? Do you love flatties?
Talking about confidence – I am very excited to be sharing here first my 21 day Confidence Challenge I am OK, I am ready… https://diriddell.com/?p=1710
Commencing I am running starting in May 23rd…I would love you to join me.